We have all come to believe certain boundary myths as truth. Believing these myths about setting boundaries leads us to feelings of guilt, anger, or anxiety. We can learn to be free of these myths that entangle and ensnare.
John 13:34-35 New Revised Standard Version (NRSV)
34 I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”